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bla bla bla bla...has anyone ever criticized about other people in front of you?complaining? whining?or worse, giving unwanted, unnecessary comments on YOU??AAAAaahHhhh..belive me, these people exist!
I just hate "bebelan" eversince i was born. It makes me feel stuffed inside and there’s nothing i can do about it but to keep silent and not make them sound worse…but there is a boiling point. You see, when people start to criticize, they are actually opening themselves to criticism.Let’s say some1 says "Eww, why is ur hair dat color?it looks awful.." Ok, for the first few times it’s tolerable. But wat abt for the 2789th times??that will be the time to release ur greatest nuclear atomic bom…watever.and say sumthing like.."yeah, your hair’s so perfect and pretty..isit tranplanted onto ur head??ohh..don’t u think it’s time for u to get sum workout…cos ur so fat dat u look pregnant…" haaiiii…well, dat has never happened yet..or ever.Cos i can’t do it…and i don’t even care.
tell u a trick…next time sum1 pisses u off…just think of wat YOU HAVE dat he/she DOESN’T HAVE. Like i did dat day…heheh. I almost lost it but i gained my hapiness back and not let others ruin it. I just said to myself, well…her hubby is fat and hairy…and I’m going for a vacation soon with my butt-cute,superduper happening and loving hubby.and she’s NOT. Ok, instantly, i smiled and had a good day.sounds bad, i know…but at least those thoughts saved me from anger and frustration of dealing with it.So, it happens in ur mind.No harm done to others.So, dat day i moved on, forgave her and forget all about it.AaaaHHhhhh!!! So beat it!
Just some galpower tips to all my galfrens out there…yey.(oh, the title is CLICK cos i clicked my own ‘remote control’ and got hold of the situation..try the ‘mute’ button..probably my favourite button..heheeh)
November 16th, 2006 at 12:08 am
Sometimes i wonder why pple have to say hurtful things to hurt other pple. what do they obtain out of it? teasing/jokes are fine, but sumtimes you can just tell that they do MEAN IT. The eyes speak for themselves. The best way to counter attack these pple, is to give the ‘duh’ look. Just keep quiet and walk away in the middle of being insulted (even before she finishes her sentence). Then we shall see who has the last laff. LOL
November 17th, 2006 at 10:34 pm
yeh..i owez give the ‘blur’ look. u know why?cos wat they say is NOT who i am.So i’m blur abt who they’re talking abt.Totally not affected.Siapa makan cili dia rasa pedas. If you show ‘blur’ face..ur definitely not pedas..hahah
November 27th, 2006 at 4:32 am
yes,i did the same think when ppl critise me. i used to cry when ppl critise me.Bo hooo.then i found out how stupid am i to cry.for what?Yeah,delight…i support you! ^_^
February 11th, 2007 at 12:22 am
Hahahaha… u know what dewi? i have encountered so many of these people. Honestly, i feel when someone says something bad about u i.e: “oh my god, you look so fat!”.. well, they are just really expressing their own insecurities… so next time when someone has to say something nasty to you… just smile & say ‘I know i’m overweight but it’s okay, but hey, you look so good…it’s amazing!’ & walk away… cuz u know, they’ll be thinking about the self-confidence that you have shown, and be embarassed for thier own lack of it!