The “M.B.A” award
Initially, i was not bothered. After a while, I learned the meaning of MBA. At the time, it was not a big deal for me, it may just be a joke. Wat do I mean? I’ve heard of the term "MBA" several times. Spontaneously, I didn’t take it seriously. As a fun-loving person and with my selamba attitude, it was alright.
Wat is "MBA"?Nop..not Master of Business Administration…guess again?
M : Married
B : But
A : Available
But then today I realized that it was NOT ALRITE. There is a danger zone. I must be aware of these MBA guys. No doubt they are normal friendly people, but I must keep my professional distance. However, the question is…wat is exactly the limit,the borderline, the acceptable behaviour?? I may need your comments on this. At the same time, I don’t want to end up as some kind of an over-reacting freak..i think you know wat i mean. Friendly gestures are just fine. One can’t be like a log anyway. It’s just that when will a joke means more than a joke? Sometimes it depends on one’s sensitivity on the issue and others’ perceptions about it. Let me give some example..
–> MBA guy gives a shoulder massage
–>MBA guy jokingly pushes you as he walks by
–>MBA guy declares that he an "MBA" himself
–>People around you know abt MBA guys and talk about it openly
So, should there be some kind of protection here? To avoid misunderstandings..to remain innocent(cos you are)..Wat’s a good way to avoid it?
Well, i think that if you start having some guilt and start thinking of wat ur other half would think, then you’ll know it’s over the board.Stay away from those MBAs.
August 17th, 2006 at 5:37 pm
MBAs can sweet talk more than a bachelor.
MBAs can be more kenja than their single counterparts.
MBAs are insensitive partners in real life.
MBAs are feeling less de guilt wen they can find sum scapegoat excuses.
jus avoid them at all cost. I hv seen sum real cases wif sum frens tat wen too overboard. I dnt tink hair pulling in public is a gud coverage for popularity..
August 17th, 2006 at 7:26 pm
Definitely u (and all of us girls) need to stay clear of MBAs. Thanks for the info coz tis is d 1st time i’ve heard of MBAs:p. Once a married guy declare that they are available then they must be jerks. Don’t waste ur time on them and i don’t even think we should consider their feelings coz they r heartless people and doesn’t even think of the feelings of their loved ones. Giving massages are intimate gestures anyway…
August 17th, 2006 at 8:29 pm
Some people are very touchy feely coz it’s their nature, it doenst have to have a guy who’s MBA that he massages your shoulder, or pushes you gently etc.. A single guy sometimes do that coz they just love to touch pple. But it’s better not to be involved with an MBA, you do not want to be named as a home wrecker like Siti Nurhaliza, but it’s ok to be frens with them. Make sure they know their boundaries.