BeAuTy ON FiRe

First of all, thanks to Elaine,Lil and El. I know you guys will give uplifting comments as you’re all women of strong characters,heheh.
Yep, MBA guys suck! Well it’s a pity though cos they can be really nice people in reality but that MBA behavior is unacceptable.Truely, I sympathise their wives, whoever they are.
On the other hand, some guys may appear to behave like MBA when they are not, as they just like to tease and have some fun without any bad intention. This can be complicated cos it may lead to misunderstanding on people around and even their partners. Maybe the two get caught on a bad day standing closely to each other…?
I shall not mention names or places here. We’ll have a detailed conversation when we get together one day. Speaking of it just makes me miss all of my good buddies..elaine, cat, lil..christie,..norin..ivy..Wow, we truely have lots to talk about!
In my point of view and realtime experience, I get uncomfortable when it gets too far. When I feel that certain gestures or touch is just meant especially for me and my love. It isn’t fair that MBA(or non MBA guys) find their chances on doing those intimate stuff. It’s just not worth it. They don’t have that right anyway! HUhu..I shall remain faithful..

Initially, i was not bothered. After a while, I learned the meaning of MBA. At the time, it was not a big deal for me, it may just be a joke. Wat do I mean? I’ve heard of the term "MBA" several times. Spontaneously, I didn’t take it seriously. As a fun-loving person and with my selamba attitude, it was alright.
Wat is "MBA"?Nop..not Master of Business Administration…guess again?
M : Married
B : But
A : Available

But then today I realized that it was NOT ALRITE. There is a danger zone. I must be aware of these MBA guys. No doubt they are normal friendly people, but I must keep my professional distance. However, the question is…wat is exactly the limit,the borderline, the acceptable behaviour?? I may need your comments on this. At the same time, I don’t want to end up as some kind of an over-reacting freak..i think you know wat i mean. Friendly gestures are just fine. One can’t be like a log anyway. It’s just that when will a joke means more than a joke? Sometimes it depends on one’s sensitivity on the issue and others’ perceptions about it. Let me give some example..
–> MBA guy gives a shoulder massage
–>MBA guy jokingly pushes you as he walks by
–>MBA guy declares that he an "MBA" himself
–>People around you know abt MBA guys and talk about it openly
So, should there be some kind of protection here? To avoid misunderstandings..to remain innocent(cos you are)..Wat’s a good way to avoid it?
Well, i think that if you start having some guilt and start thinking of wat ur other half would think, then you’ll know it’s over the board.Stay away from those MBAs.

Everytime I feel like writing a new post in my blog..i don’t know wat to talk about. I’ll normally just let the thoughts flow. And wat’s on my mind rite now? hhmm..there’s so much actually. Especially after reading Lillian’s Personal Quotes. Honestly i feel touched that i’m actually part of her life. And do hope i’m part of many others’ lives. I always believe this, eversince i was a little girl..that life is to be shared. Hmm, kinda contradicts my personality at the time(when i was small) cos I was basically a loner.hahah..but that’s another story.
The fact is, i long to be around my family, extended families(oohh), friends and more friends..all my life. Some people lose their friends as they get older or when they start having their own family. But personally, there is no good reason to lose your friendships. We may not see each other every single day but we still keep our friendship..it’s a treasure. How lonely life would be without sharing or giving to one another. There is absolutely nothing to lose. Special relationships leads to extraordinary intimacy that nothing the world can offer(that’s my point of view).Just thinking of how the mechanism functions is more than amazing.
In a nutshell(hehe..owez use this phrase in English essays in school), we all need each other. Anyone who live life for himself and by himself is simply pathetic and selfish. That’s grievious. That’s why i value every relationship, especially special ones as they don’t come by easily. I’m grateful for these blessings!